we're not objective we are entirely subjective creatures who perceive the world through our eyes and process it through our brain and this is why you can have people in the same environment one of them takes the challenge as an opportunity and thrives and the other one just crumbles now it is worth saying that we are a product of our past and we were a product of every experience that we've had in our early childhood upbringing and our relationship with our parents and our traumas we are a product of our past we cannot change that but we can't change our future we don't have to be a prisoner to that