and want you to understand that when a beautiful woman walks into starbucks and you serve her her coffee you're not a man to her she doesn't care about your struggles she doesn't care about your mental health doesn't go hacking she has no interest in you you're basically invisible to the majority of men out here live invisible lives their hard lives you worked very hard you build the roads you're tired you're struggling but you're invisible and i think that's one of the worst punishments a man can be bestowed with his invisibility for his entire human existence what you want to do is to matter you want people to respect you you don't want to be a number you want to be a name want people to know who you are and to do that musty excellent things which means you must live an extraordinary life which means you're gonna have the extraordinarily good and the extraordinarily bad and you need to be a man and not be a coward and not be afraid and stand up and say i'm ready for the good if it comes with the bad because then i'm not invisible anymore