You cannot build a relationship with someone who isn’t invested in you. A continuation from yester

You cannot build a relationship with someone who isn’t invested in you.

A continuation from yesterday’s post:

Not all connections and “situation-ships” are with unhealthy people wasting your time.

Our time is ours to protect. This is how we become responsible for carving our paths.

You cannot build with someone who can’t do the basics of building or who isn’t invested enough in you to do so.

jillianturecki

2024-04-29 11:24:01

you cannot build a relationship with someone who ignores your texts and you cannot build a relationship with someone who won't talk about the future with you or make plans with you

and you certainly can't build a relationship with someone who isn't willing to communicate and have the necessary conversations

but it's not your job to try to convince someone to be different and it's not your job to convince someone of your value of your worth your only job is to be a protector of your heart and of your boundaries

and you need to challenge yourself to be that protector

and the first step in loving yourself

is the boundary of goodbye

and you will be fine

there will be someone else

and yes you can handle the loneliness of going back out there again

anything is better

than

betraying yourself to be in something that is going nowhere

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