say in the bible it is better to be a nonbeliever than to not be able to provide for your family i do it seems like they had that figured out three thousand years ago retired my wife eleven years ago he goes i just can't even imagine absolutely i encourage one and want to work that's fine what they find is that in the workforce eighty three percent of women said that if they had the opportunity to be a stay at home mother yes they would have chosen take that feminists yeah how you like that way and that's what me and my wife did because it was important to both of us when i was growing up my mom worked and my parents were split up but you had that one house in the neighborhood but there was like that one mom that would make peanut butter jelly sandwiches for all the kids while you play football in the front that's what we wanted my life to be and that's what she wanted to assure it's been great for my kids