you just want to get men out of the mode because we are so goddamn analytical it's such a problem that reading a book reading a text having algorithms is the only way we can think get fuck out of there and pay attention to the person develop your mirror neurons develop your observational skills develop the human part of you that observes it feels what the other person is feeling if you depend so much on things that you've learned from the art of seduction or from a book it's gonna make you a bad seducer which is the degree that you can click into those human qualities that we all possess or you sense the emotional tone of the other person you sense what their vulnerabilities you sense what they're missing in life yes maybe sixty percent of women are missing a similar thing there are patterns too and maybe reading about it can kind of click that into you okay fine i'm not going to say that that's all bad but the main thing you want is to be getting out of your head and into your emotions and into observing an into feeling what the other person is feeling and not being so head oriented not being so analytical