you can tell men to get their shit together you can be like lose weight dress better go to the gym stop playing video you can be harsh with guys if you will take that attitude toward women they're like crying they're like you are trying to degrade me your fat shaming me they got all the words like your a biggie they come at you and you're like well no i'm just trying to tell you obesity is not healthy like this is not a good decision it shouldn't be glorified but it's amazing that in society there's an acceptance of criticizing men which some of that criticism is warranted like it needs to be said but there's not this acceptance of criticizing women suddenly your a bad person if you're pointing out flaws in women or problems with women that could potentially be leading to some of their unhappiness