you look at the penthouse as somebody lives there somebody paid for that what did they know that i don't know that allowed them to be there and not me that is the question it's not oh i need to work hard know it's maybe i knock on that guy's door as that ever occurred to you to literally go into a coffee shop full of millionaires and start making friends how many millionaires are in your circle if you're poor and you're hanging out with poor people what do you expect is going to take place people don't stop and look people don't stop and pay attention dude