saw this video it was someone holding the baby and then they make knock on a door nearby and they're like oh my god i'm so sorry your head in the babies like wang and starts crying as those in pain and then i saw another video of a baby that took a tumble like a pretty bad spill yeah and the mom was like oh look we just had a happy spill ah this is so funny and the baby starts laughing yeah and like one actually went through something and one did not yet the responses were completely different it really has to do with the way that other people respond to your trauma and then your perception of how you should be feeling after a specified event occurs i agree people experienced trauma or just erase that things happen