you only gain things of value

the only time money leaves my bank account is when i have the belief that when i'm exchanging it for is more valuable than money itself so sure the grocery store you buy a hotdog buns and sausages and mustard or whatever the heck you buy you don't lose fifty bucks you gain things of value represented by fifty bucks so can you not see from this perspective that even spending money is actually super abundant because every time you do it you are getting something of value if he only remember this for the rest of your life it will completely transform your relations to money in your scare scarcely programming but every time you spend moneys you don't lose anything you only gain something that you perceive to be valuable

so i would say that sometimes we absolutely do lose some money but the thing that we gain is a hard won lesson you may not like the lesson

it may be painful but we can extract something value even if it doesn't feel good