you never win a woman over no one has to be coerced or convinced to buy their dream car you show up the cars available you're thrilled you buy the dream car when it's not what she really wants the salesman has to go to work look at all these other great bells and whistles that you get with this car even though it's not what you really wanted if a man succeeds in winning a woman over like this she will be driving around town and from time to time she will see the dream car that she actually wanted this does not lead to contentment in a relationship you're exclusively dating but she looks single on facebook or instagram you're winning her over she still has pictures of that one ex boyfriend on her phone and she still follows him you're winning her over if you're her first choice however you're her dream car she's literally afraid to lose you she will quit following that ex-boyfriend without you ever saying anything she's eager to show you off on facebook or instagram she definitely does not look available why she's afraid to lose her first choice ride or die or just keep dating