wait a second before you think of how to manipulate or control someone do you actually control yourself

from the book forty eight laws of power by robert greene law twenty five recreate yourself how can you do it number one know yourself beyond what others want you to be focus on what you truly desire not just what society tells you to be

number two manage your feelings don't let your anger and passion take you left and right and lastly force yourself into uncomfortable situations so you don't end up being fifty years old with the emotional maturity of a fifteen year old