choosing the wrong spouse the number one determining factor of a man's success is who he chooses as a wife are you choosing someone who is going to be a believer in your dream who's going to advocate for you who is going to be the wind in your sails who is going to be your support system and hopefully you're going to do all of that for her as well right or are you rescuing someone are you the type of man who is the captain save up for a lack of a better term you're trying to rescue her because she's broken she's damaged she is codependent on you and it feels good in that moment while you're dating her so next thing you know you put a ring on it and then she is chaotic or erratic she is not a supporter of your dreams she is emotionally reckless and therefore every time you try and launch a business you try and do something great you try and live your life's purpose you have to deal with the chaos that is your spouse if you're like holy shit bro you just described my wife guess what bro help her level up every human can change if the answer is no i don't want to then you're gonna have to make a decision now obviously this goes the other way as well