your favorite quote i have one by the british prime minister benjamin disraeli from the nineteenth century she is never complain never explain and what it means is don't complain about life don't explain what you're doing why you're doing it just do it by whining and complaining are you doing is making people think bad things about you looking weak you know and when you complain a lot you have a mindset where everything is kind of a potential complaint like stop whining and stop explaining yourself and just do things in the world and let your actions speak for themselves