shins is a sign of wisdom how do you become more patient become more wise wise means i'm not looking just at the moment i'm looking ahead i'm looking into the future what will this activity result in what will be the outcome five years from now ten years from now that's wisdom wisdom his patience let things develop don't rush your way through life things take time i don't know why why can't things just happen instantaneously because if it's good why not now it's a good question but the fact is things take time and only with time will it turn out to be what it's meant to be if you rush your ruin even good things every baker can tell you that every chef will tell you that if you rush it you're ruined so have a little wisdom and look at the picture long term not just immediate gratification