advice to you is an advice that i've received when i was thirty six one of my best friends monica ton she was sitting down and i told her more now that you're married
what is the secret because we both went through toxic relationships in the past me and her and she gave me a piece of advice and i remember that day we were sitting at any event it was her event i was so quiet for the whole night
because my mind was processing what she told me
she told me don't look for firecracker look for fireplace
and she just left she just passed me like hey baby don't look for a fire cracker look for five so she just left
but she left me
with a message that like screwed my mind completely and it's so true
we always look for these men that you know give us butterflies and i go crazy when i see them yeah no seven on that but that's exactly what you should be avoiding
look for the fireplace look for the man that makes you feel like you're home you're you're you're warm you're calm
there might not be firecrackers or butterflies but he is home to you you