are men unattractive to independent women
no
just mad annoying when you make being independent your entire personality because those independent women are just average adults oh you make your own money cook your own food you do your own laundry wow you're the average adult men
like you don't see a bunch of men going around saying we're such independent men how cringey would that be so yeah have fun listening to cardi b or billie eilish or taylor swift or whatever that's tough