ah i've came to the conclusion of this i don't need to draw a line in the sand saying if you cross this line i'm done with you i'm drawing boundaries saying do not cross these or you are leaving me because have you heard the saying i'll take care of you if you take care of me and i'm starting to realize i heard this wise man say he goes that selfish because i'll take care of you if you take care of myself fish the better conclusion is i'll take care of me so that way i could take care of view so you take care of you so you could take care of me