how to solve a problem you have using dark psychology
most people when they want to solve a problem in their life look for answers from other people
which can be effective but not always
it's really hard to sort out the good from the bad advice
the best way to solve a problem is to give yourself advice
most of the time you know enough information to solve the problem you have
but you just can't teach yourself
if your friend had the same problem you could help them
but you can't help yourself
you have to learn how to listen to your own advice
you can easily tell your friend what they are doing wrong
but you can't tell yourself what you are doing wrong
the way you can do this is by writing to your current self and acting like you are your future self and you are giving your current self advice
you have to distance yourself from being you and give yourself advice like you were your friend
journal to yourself like you are writing to someone else who is experiencing the same problem as you and try to help them
you will most likely be able to help them
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