remember this as you gain fame as you gain fortune as you gain position and seniority people will treat you better they will hold doors open for you they will get you a cup of tea and coffee without you even asking they will call you sir and ma'am and they will give you stuff none of that stuff is meant for you that stuff is meant for the position you hold it is meant for the level that you have achieved of leader or success or whatever you wanna call it but you will always deserve a styrofoam cup remember that remember that lesson of humility and gratitude you can accept all the free stuff you can accept all the perks absolutely you can enjoy them but just be grateful for them and know that they're not for you