gave myself hard deadlines and i forced myself into a stress people go oh grant let's not good you know that's not sustainable course not not doing it every single time but if you want to fast track your success it's uncomfortable as hell and since everybody in the world is so soft and hesitant they're afraid to feel bad so they never take giant leaps they never go out and do a big audacious goal because they want to feel good i didn't give a shit i just wanted to win