he wants someone to be obsessed with you if you are not already in a relationship with someone don't show them how upset you are just show disinterest if they're not texting you as much as you want them to don't give them a whole long paragraph just distance yourself just focus on something and someone if they're doing something that would bother you or your boyfriend to be doing but they're not your boyfriend yet you can't react to them as if they are you've just got to hold off and also just realize if that's the way that they're treating you that's how they feel about you and that's the type of person that they are that might sound a little toxic but it's also toxic to let your emotions overwhelm you so much that you absolutely need to tell this person what you're thinking someone who is emotionally balanced won't care enough if a guy doesn't text you back soon enough you're gonna think whatever with this guy and move on to whatever else you're doing with your life so don't think about it as i have to be honest i have to say what's on my mind that's the right thing to do it's not the right thing to do is just feel better and not care about this guy anymore yes and you're communicating they are not coming from abundance and you're coming from this situation where you need this to work so bad for you to be happy