you think without them realising i think the real thing that they find attractive in women is a woman who is incredibly nurturing i think no matter how self-sufficient and how masculine a man is but when a woman takes care of or predicts his needs before he says it he can't help it melt so if she knows you might be hungry and there's something ready she knows that you might be tired there's a coffee ready if she knows that he's got work in the morning it's going to be in a rush there's a shirt ironed these kind of nurturing acts makes a man feel loved and i don't think they realize it because they're so conditioned to not expect that from women anymore and see that as oppressive and see that's toxic they're just like oh no don't even expect that but when they receive it they act like babies like just received an open to present