and we're going to get married i don't want to get married why there's no benefit for the man he only has everything to lose like a man can be completely faithful to his wife provide protect take care of the kids you know obviously when he's not working whatever and the wife can step out and cheat and what's the result of that man has to pay alimony has to pay child support loses his house loses the cars loses everything why what's the point and then like it's a coin flip flip a coin if your marriage is going to work those are the odds those are the those are the chances if you want to get married cool bro wedding but the rings on each other say your vowels you're married you have to submit nothing with the court's july alone the only reason why somebody is not okay being alone is because they're not okay with themselves