you're scared of being alone and single and you're going into a relationship because of that fear research shows three things happen
the first thing is you're guaranteed to settle for less than you deserve
guaranteed
the second thing is you're more likely to be dependent on that person because you think they're out of your league and so now you become do mold fold
become anything they want
they want you to be
and the third is you're going to be scared to leave them
because being with them in your mind is better than being alone