let's say your son comes to you he's fourteen he says dad what's the best piece of advice you can give me right now the best advice i can give is just keep in mind there's a whole bunch of people who love you who are looking out for you really care about you and who have done a lot for youtube exist as a person and you owe them along thing you have a big debt to pay to your family to your ancestors to god and you have to try very hard and keep that in mind and let that motivate you to be yourself