so you have to build yourself from the ground up and that's scary for a lot of people but is also a massive opportunity you can decide if you want to be a famous musician or a nice sensitive poet or a painter or boxing world champion or a businessman you get to decide on all the different characters in the video game you can choose who do i want to be and then if you actually try actually try you can become it it's not amazing you can wake up until you know what i want to be this kind of guy