Why Women Test Men- Sadia Khan on ‘The School Of Greatness’ podcast hosted by Lewis Howes

“Essentially what we’re begging for sometimes is the boundary.”

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2024-04-01 11:00:44

it's been so many times where women say to me is like oh i told him i want a divorce but hoping he'd come back for me but he let me pack my bags so sometimes they offer divorce or take it that far as a way of testing their partner and if there was quite a healthy partner they'll think you mean it so many women try to test their men constantly it's an evolutionary thing because here's the reality childbirth is potentially fatal so to put that risk onto a relationship he better be able to endure all types of storms
so we have to test them so we have to unfortunately test and we have to test other it going to be faithful financially stable have their boundaries now the problem is unfortunately for men when we push you and you succumb to us you automatically lose us what we're saying when we're pushing you is really make sure you don't give into this because if you do then i know you're not strong enough and like give me an example it might be something like i push a man to say i'm gonna come home when i want i'm going to come on goals chips i'm gonna do whatever i want and then when you actually give in and say okay essentially she feels like she's not being protected so she feels like nobody's governing you don't have a spine and responsible or she might sound talking to my ex-boyfriend and you so i don't feel comfortable with that she won't know you have to have to have to
find he accepts it since she she's saying that you don't mind if i have an affair by essentially what we're begging voice sometimes is the boundary we're not looking for you to bow down
so hard for men to figure that out right i feel so bad for them it's like a robust psychology or the tie one fortunately