contact is one of the quickest ways to know if you're attractive so here are the five stages of icon first a woman will unconsciously look at you for a sec and then immediately look away this could have been an accident stage two which is when a woman will look at you've been only look away when you make icon this could be a sign of interest or also discussed i wouldn't make a move here age three which is where a woman will hold eye-contact with you for about a second after you look at them and then she'll quickly look away this is a sign she wants you to make the first move reports