the key to everything is actually being strategic with yourself and looking at yourself and being honest with yourself so if you figure out what your life's task is if you figure out i was meant to start a business or to write a book or whatever and it really connects to you and you have a great love and excitement about it than when people are being political and they're trying to distract or they're giving you bad advice you have the energy to move past it but if you're filled with doubts and insecurities if you go oh i kind of want to write a book but maybe i want to start my own restaurant or maybe i wanna write poetry or maybe you want to be a rockstar it's never going to add up to anything right and then with people come up with their bad ideas or their political or they're envious you'll fall for it so you have to have a real good solid sense of who you are what makes you different and what you love