and then the things that actually do matter

number one a single grade on one test or even a grade and an entire class i put a lot of pressure on myself and even a b in my mind was a failure

this is not true and there's many reasons why one particular test or class might go poorly for you what does matter though

your overall gpa the aggregate of all of your classes four years of tests and exams is a pretty good indication of how you are as a student

the number two thing i used to care about that actually doesn't matter has to do with working out i used to think that the sets and rep ranges for lifts were magical numbers that would determine whether you're either building lean muscle tissue or just getting big strong i also used to care about which supplements i take and if i take creatine should i take it before or after my workout for ninety nine percent of people none of this stuff matters muscle is muscle fat is fat and what actually matters is do you go to the gym consistently do you sleep enough consistently do you eat whole foods consistently and will you be able to do that for years and years and years there you go just taught you how i got buff in twenty seconds and the last thing i used to care about that doesn't matter it's having everybody like you otherwise known as being a people pleaser why the hell should you care about people who you don't want to be like or associate with think of you

the answer is you shouldn't what does matter though is to be likable to the people who you want to be likable to this should be done in a genuine fashion and not fake but you'll get infinitely further in this world if you can cultivate a powerful network rather than being a loner of the whole video on that so go check it out but also follow me for more content