i knew that
i wanted to have the power of the purse
i wanted to be economically independent scan my own two feet
and interestingly my father alter his life and my grandfather said
to the girls
we educating you because we never want you to put your hand out to anybody and say give me money
nobody
we don't want you to do that to
your husband to your in-laws nobody
never put out your hand and say give me money run the house or to
buy something for yourself
your education is the biggest dowry we gave him
is the biggest investment we made new
we want you to stand on your own two feet