thing that makes a good man a man is that he does what he doesn't want to do and doesn't want to work and he works anyway it doesn't want to go to war and he fights anyway doesn't want to get up he gets up anyway that's the whole point of it we didn't want to die the titanic guess what happened we died the titanic gets and there's a man so you don't feel like you're not allowed to not be like your friends to do it anyway regardless