you can't be excellent and be like everybody else excellence is only really found in deviants if what you're doing is super normalized if you go out and have as many drinks as your friends do every single time if nobody's ever seen that's weird why are you going to bed so early or not coming out with us if people are saying you work too much that's good you're probably on a deviant path to excellence and if you don't do those things then you may just not achievable what you want