you treated your goals the way that you treat your internet connection when it goes out you'd probably be a whole lot closer to where you want to be because when your internet connection goes out do you sit there and say oh well it's too complicated i guess we're going without internet today i really want my internet connection back on but i'm not exactly motivated today to do it so rather than walking over to my modem and trying to figure out what the problem is i'm gonna sit on my cell phone and watch a bunch of content about fixing your internet connection so maybe i'll be motivated to do it that's not at all what you do you spring right into action you become resourceful you do the things that are required you stop at nothing to fix it so that you can produce the outcome which is getting your internet back on which by the way is exactly what you need to achieve your goals but the differences you don't see not achieving your goals the same way you see not having your internet connection it's not as important to you because if it were you would be utilizing those very skills to get exactly where you want to go but you're not