Hey, I dramatized things a little for this video. It’s sometimes OK to say, “Can I have your number?”
But it’s ALWAYS better to share a plan when you ask for a girl’s number. It gives her a REASON to say yes!
You may have heard of reason-respecting bias before. The great Charlie Munger (RIP) talked a lot about it as a fundamental of human psychology. Put simply, people are more likely to agree to a request you make of them when you couple it with a reason.
Looking at this case, “Can I get your number?” feels a lot less random when you’re also sharing the context, “I’d love to take you on a date” — plus it makes you sound more confident, which is something all women love!
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But it’s ALWAYS better to share a plan when you ask for a girl’s number. It gives her a REASON to say yes!
You may have heard of reason-respecting bias before. The great Charlie Munger (RIP) talked a lot about it as a fundamental of human psychology. Put simply, people are more likely to agree to a request you make of them when you couple it with a reason.
Looking at this case, “Can I get your number?” feels a lot less random when you’re also sharing the context, “I’d love to take you on a date” — plus it makes you sound more confident, which is something all women love!
Follow @datingbyblaine for more dating wisdom 🧠
#datingcoach #datingcoachformen
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2024-04-14 17:12:54
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