think physical compatibility is super important i think we get along in line with each other on three big fronts it's physical emotional and intellectual all three are as important if on an intellectual basis you and i can't help each other grow um that area's going to be stunted emotionally the issue that we develop together as a partner but also the physical compatibility because i think all three provide that holy trifecta that make for good relationship you can pick one or the other has to be all three