tell him i asked somebody what their dream life is to give a very lazy sloppy answer will i want to be rich how rich how much money is in liquid cash is in stocks is in crypto what are you going to buy have you ever been to the gym and seen a person in fantastic physical condition and you say to them how did you get so big and strong and they say i dunno ooops kind of just happened have you ever found a really rich man said how did you become rich and successful he goes i dunno bro i just woke up one day and it kind of happened and now i'm living my dream like no there is a very detailed plan and roadmap you have to design your dream life what house you're gonna live in hoosier woman than what car you're gonna drive you talk about your dream life you don't even know what your dream life is how do you expect to get to a destination when you don't know where you're going do you understand by design my dream life long ago before i was before i had anything and i worked very hard with a very concise very detailed plan to assure i ended up exactly where i wanted to be