the good asian boy i went to harvard worked in wall street i worked at instagram because i was really addicted to this repeated like i work at x or i did this right and it's not until i was like super miserable that i finally was willing to just sit there and find myself more via like principles and routines i'm the type of person who is going to work out x times a week because i care about my physical fit it's going to see my friends x times because i care about friendship versus x y z external bits of achievement and ultimate that was like huge for my life and helped me to start carrying