women who don't want to submit to a man because they're afraid of being controlled are the women who are controlling their man and what they're really afraid of is losing that control that's what submission is it's surrendering control yielding to the leadership of your man does not mean blindly following orders and letting them boss you around but the reason that women think that's what submission means is because that's how men have treated women in the past but now women are the ones dominating their men and then complaining that they're not masculine enough the minutiae of it can be as mundane as my partner telling me hey babe can you pick up some eggs on your way from work
and submission would look like yeah but what else would you like what masculine women do is they challenge the leadership of their partner why do i have to do it why can't you do it or they criticize and challenge every decision they make masculine men will not put up with that type of behavior whether it's healthy masculinity or wounded masculinity there's too much of the same energy going on so if you want your man to be masculine you have to be willing to drop that defensive masculine shield that pushes people away