the best way to get back at someone who betrayed you
and left you
isn't to find a new partner or talk badly about them everywhere
instead
you should focus on doing these three things
if you do them
you'll be the ultimate winner
first
stop paying attention to them
since they chose to betray you
whatever they do
whether finding new love or having a worse life than you
it's all irrelevant to you
your only task is to control your inner self
even if you're reluctant
don't waste your precious time on the wrong person
remember
the highest form of punishment is silence
and the most elegant revenge
is to ignore
second
make peace with yourself
remind yourself that you're great and their failure to cherish you is there loves
when you start missing them
ask yourself if they really treated you well
if they didn't
then there's no reason to hold onto those feelings
you're not losing someone important you're just feeling regretful wasting time on them
the truth might be that
you're the one struggling to let go
while they might have moved on already
third
stop imagining they'll come back
holding onto this idea makes you look weak
they will only look down on your more
they've moved their feelings away from you
so why make you