i first met my husband like i didn't think he was my husband at all i was like in love with someone else he was not checking off the boxes of what i thought my type was we didn't have the ups and downs he was like very into business he was fun but i was so used to dating either artists or musicians what happened is just over time we became really really good friends he was the person i was hanging out with the most while kind of recovering from this breakup while i'm telling him the stories about like i'm still in love with this guy he was like i didn't care because i knew we were gonna end up together so whatever i end up just one day realizing that i had been in these relationships that it was just so up and down and i didn't actually want that and all of a sudden six months in this relationship i was like this is one of the most beautiful solid relationships i've ever experienced in my entire life this person is here no matter what in this so solid through everything that i've gone through that i started to notice how close you can get with that type of person like it's a different level of closeness