number one when you're working on a group project and you want somebody to do something instead of asking

can you do this say can you start on this it sounds like less work making them more likely to do it number two when someone tries to start an argument throw in compliments or say something nice this will drive them crazy number three act super excited when you see someone and they're going to start reciprocating and acting really excited when they see you too number four if you think someone doesn't like you ask them questions you already know the answers to they'll explain and subconsciously they'll start liking you more number five with kids give them a choice instead of saying clean your room

offer options like cleaning their room or the kitchen they'll feel like you're giving them freedom and pick one