if you were to say to me andrew raise your son i'd say he needs to be self accountable strong discipline control his emotions stoic he needs to be a traditionally masculine man when you sit and tell men to act how they feel and cry more to problem with that is that men have a wide variety of emotions men get angry school shooters act how they feel a man is supposed to be stoic supposed to do the right thing because it's the right thing to do duty honor respect his last name and his parents