men can compensate bad looks women can't when a man is not that good-looking is super funny super intelligent is super successful comes attractive whereas women don't have a conference atri strategy you could be nice you can be kind but guys are going to think wow you're gorgeous but he won't convince himself that your beautiful graceful women when you're the funniest guy you've become super handsome but for a man if you're unattractive you're unattractive even if you're nice pretty kind caring they'll still be with you i'm not saying they won't choose you but they're not blinded to your looks they're not going to be like you're the most beautiful going oh they'll still recognize that you're not that attractive