the best spot you want to be in in life is rich and anonymous the worst is poor and famous i spent some time with a family two or three years ago the family is worth eight billion dollars and if you google their name nothing comes up they are completely anonymous they're not on any forbes list they've not done any interviews that donate their money anonymously and that's all very intentional and so this family is worth eight billion dollars and they have virtually no social debt like they could just walk down the street they can go to any restaurant nobody knows who they are