you guys know each other okay when you decide to change here in a minute because you will it's going to be hard because you're thinking well how how am i going to be different from her now the hardest thing that you'll ever do is change in front of the people you love it be the hardest thing you've ever done but if you have the courage to do it my god you have no idea what's about to happen and if you change and she supports you than she she loves you and she's really she said she is but most of the time you'll learn that when you change a lot of people really don't love you and i'm not being negative