show me how long it takes you to order at a counter and it'll show you your bank account fly that was at a counter like one does coffee shop or something and there was there's always a lady in front of you right in the lady in front of you takes for centuries to order a coffee and muffin what i realised very quickly is if you want to get something done you give it to a busy person is the same that's why they say you should take somebody to dinner before you hire them or take them out to lunch see how they treat the staff but i also think see how quickly they make decisions because people take forever to order when they stand in line one are really comfortable in convenience and somebody else around them which means they have limited self-awareness maybe borderline narcissism and then simultaneously they're not very efficient at the things that don't really matter that coffee order does not really matter and so if we know we are here for finite amount of time i spend so much time on that as opposed to a walk a sunset etc you really didn't like this lady