men don't talk
and this is something that we have to look at
they're taught to be a man
and internalize everything
and then on top of that us woman
we have never learned we were never taught
what it means to create the atmosphere
for your man to open up himself to you
and so in times and moments where
your man
opens up himself to you
is very hard for you to receive it
and fact
in a moment where you were upset at him angry at him mad at him
you use that information
that he gave you what to so sacred against him
it was a slap to his face
and now you're asking yourself why doesn't he talk
why doesn't he want to speak to me
why isn't he going the same way that he did before
so we have to learn how to create the atmosphere
for a man to open up himself to us
but it's imperative that we know that this atmosphere
comes from within