men don't talk and this is something that we have to look at they're taught to be a man and internalize everything and then on top of that us woman we have never learned we were never taught what it means to create the atmosphere for your man to open up himself to you and so in times and moments where your man opens up himself to you is very hard for you to receive it and fact in a moment where you were upset at him angry at him mad at him you use that information that he gave you what to so sacred against him it was a slap to his face and now you're asking yourself why doesn't he talk why doesn't he want to speak to me why isn't he going the same way that he did before so we have to learn how to create the atmosphere for a man to open up himself to us but it's imperative that we know that this atmosphere comes from within