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2024-03-05 12:00:59

why is it that when
women are annoyed
they
you have to
really you have to ask them ten times what is wrong yeah until they finally say
okay
this is the problem i say it was wrong
night nothing
i say
what's wrong
and they sit home
and i'm like just i know something's wrong you tell what it is it's women they tend to be really emotionally intelligent
so if we know that what might upset you so we kind of know okay this might upset you so we assume if you cared about us you know
and so because we think emotional intelligence is natural we forget that men don't have that they don't always think from somebody else's perspective all day everyday they don't real they're not mind readers so we think that if you loved when you would know in our minds if we have to tell you you must not love me but that's the wrong attitude women you shouldn't think that effectively communicate
what you need to be said because otherwise you create distance and ukraine frustration in your partner but we as women think if you loved me you'd know and when we have to tell you we feel like we're weakening
the connection but really you're strengthening it
and so yeah it's the stupid technique