i had two friends equally beautiful two girls both good friends of mine to this day we go to a club one night one girl both gorgeous both just relatively the same one girl no guy will even fuck with is just like leaves her alone other girl is getting hit on left and right in the most inappropriate ways she's like what the fuck and they're both gorgeous it wasn't the way physically looked but i knew both of their backstories one was very whole healthy had a complete identity was not seeking was not looking for validation all the shitty guys were like don't fuck with that one it was the whole energy they just knew don't fuck with that one the other girl very broken had some really shitty things happen or past was still healing growing her energy was validate me so what do you do if you're sitting in that energy you're going to invite all manner of shit and she did and i was sitting with both of them we had a discussion about it later that's very tough for people to hear on something anybody wants to end by the way in no way am i justifying shit heads acting like shit heads with women period i'm just saying if you understand why things are happening you could figure out how to navigate them better